Hijab wedding?
Sunday, September 27th, 2009
muta asked:
I live in France and am planning on going back to the states for my sister’s wedding. She does not want me to attend the wedding in my hijab.
At first she said I could not even come with it on. Then she said it was my choice but she preferred I took it off.
My plan was to compromise. I won’t wear all black, abaya and huge veil. I will wear something in color, and try to find some dress that is very very modest, stylish, with a veil to match.
Then my mom on the phone said again, ‘she’s really hoping you come in normal clothes.’
I’m getting very upset about this. Even having bad dreams about my family and how closed minded they are. I will not take it off. Should I just not go to the wedding and risk breaking familial ties (that’s haram!) or just go with my veil and endure the abuse my family is going to dole out?
For the first answer, I will tell you now that I am not implying other women who don’t veil as ‘sluts’ per se. Don’t be simplistic. I may think they do not have a clear conception of human nature, but I am not so ignorant as to think they are promiscuous..
don’t be simplistic in your thinking…
If you don’t erase that huge anti-islam rant from this thread, i will report you.
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I live in France and am planning on going back to the states for my sister’s wedding. She does not want me to attend the wedding in my hijab.
At first she said I could not even come with it on. Then she said it was my choice but she preferred I took it off.
My plan was to compromise. I won’t wear all black, abaya and huge veil. I will wear something in color, and try to find some dress that is very very modest, stylish, with a veil to match.
Then my mom on the phone said again, ‘she’s really hoping you come in normal clothes.’
I’m getting very upset about this. Even having bad dreams about my family and how closed minded they are. I will not take it off. Should I just not go to the wedding and risk breaking familial ties (that’s haram!) or just go with my veil and endure the abuse my family is going to dole out?
For the first answer, I will tell you now that I am not implying other women who don’t veil as ‘sluts’ per se. Don’t be simplistic. I may think they do not have a clear conception of human nature, but I am not so ignorant as to think they are promiscuous..
don’t be simplistic in your thinking…
If you don’t erase that huge anti-islam rant from this thread, i will report you.
Ultimate Guide To Baby Gender Selection
