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		<title>Asian Girls for Dating &amp; Asian Women for Marriage</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tammy Wong asked: In recent years, Asian dating services have been emerged to help online singles to find dates on the internet. It is so easy and simple to find dates online these days. Single people register at these dating sites to look for partners. So, Asian dating websites offer the means for Asian singles [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Tammy Wong</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>In recent years, Asian dating services have been emerged to help online singles to find dates on the internet. It is so easy and simple to find dates online these days. Single people register at these dating sites to look for partners. So, Asian dating websites offer the means for Asian singles to find love and romance. These services also have American or other Western singles who are interested in Asian girls for marriage. Basically, there are both Asian women for marriage and American men at these dating sites. Most of these girls register their personal ads themselves, without any help from the website administrator. Some of them look for the men from their own countries. Some Asian girls look for marriage from men in America or other Western countries.<br/><br/>The beautiful smoothly yellow skin of Asian women makes them to stand out from other American girls. No other women in the world can compare with Asian girls. The most beautiful thing of a woman is her skin. Women in Asia are just so unique. They are pretty and beautiful. They do not cheat the men. They are the best. The beautiful characteristics of Asian women are faithfulness, honest, and respectfulness. They look younger than their real age are. A 40 years old Asian lady looks like 30. Their skin are yellow and their face are cute, Asian girls are the most beautiful and too popular these days. American men seeking Asian women online are common these days. Free dating sites help thousands of relationships and marriages a year.<br/><br/>To find Asian girls for dating, you have to register at these free online dating services. There are many Asian girls looking for men at these dating websites. You can search for any type of girl you want. You can even search for specific location at each US state or countries. There are many Asian women who live in America for a long time so they speak English fluently. Some of them do not speak English very well. So, it is up to you to select which type to get acquainted with. Asian women dating for marriage at these dating sites are ready to meet you. You have to take an action now by joining these free dating sites to meet that special dream mate.<br/><br/>If you look for Asian women for marriage, then you are at the right direction. Asian girls dating for marriage at these sites are not only looking for fun but also for long term marriage. If you register a profile and just look for sex, then you can not win her heart. Most women are shy when they first meet you. They usually hide their feelings in front of their men. They are beautiful inside. Some of the beauties of Asian brides are the honest and faithfulness. They let the men to lead the family even they are smart. They always respect their men. So, are you ready to meet your special Asian woman? Do not wait any longer but take action now by joining these free Asian dating services to meet your other half today.<br/><br/><br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Ultimate_Guide_To_Baby_Gender_Selection/276/3'>Ultimate Guide To Baby Gender Selection</a></div>
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		<title>Diamond Jewelry Buying Tips for the Clueless Guy</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Archie Cohen asked: If a guy is clueless about diamonds, he might end up giving the girl of his dreams the ugliest diamond there is which will eventually lower or completely destroy all his chances of ending up with the previously mentioned girl. It is therefore important to give some clue to all the diamond-clueless [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Archie Cohen</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>If a guy is clueless about diamonds, he might end up giving the girl of his dreams the ugliest diamond there is which will eventually lower or completely destroy all his chances of ending up with the previously mentioned girl. It is therefore important to give some clue to all the diamond-clueless guys out there exactly what to look for when buying diamonds for a girl. First things first. When buying any type of diamond jewelry for a girl, always be aware of her preference. Does she like the vintage or antique style jewelry or the modern and hip ones? Does she like to be noticed and have a high profile diamond setting on her ring or does she prefer the low key type?<br/><br/>To answer these questions, it is necessary to do a little sleuthing. If you are already allowed in her house, try to look for signs of her jewelry style by looking at her pictures and noting what type of jewelry she was wearing, or to spy through her jewelry box for tell-tale signs of her jewelry preferences. Again, do this only if you are already allowed in her house. Never, I repeat, never do this by breaking into her house. This will make you look like a creepy stalker. The next step in buying diamond jewelry for a girl you are courting is by knowing how much money you are willing to spend for it. If you’re down-on-your-luck and have little or no extra money to spend, then forget about buying her diamond jewelry and try to woo her using your charms. If she insists on the diamond jewelry in return for her undying love, then ditch the girl and look for somebody else.<br/><br/>There are a lot of girls out there that would love you for just who you are and not for how much you’re worth. But if your budget permits, go ahead and buy her diamonds. Just be sure to purchase a diamond jewelry that is within your budget. Diamonds might drive girls crazy but they are not an assurance that you will win her heart immediately and therefore more dating is still required. In buying diamonds for the girl you are courting, you must know that diamonds are graded using the four C’s which stand for Clarity, Color, Cut and Carat weight. Clarity refers to the flaws a diamond has. Color refers to the amount of tinting a diamond has. Cut refers not to the shape of the diamond but to the way the diamond was polished. Carat refers to the size and weight of the diamond. Knowing this information will help you choose a nice diamond to give your girl. Also, if the girl is with you during the purchase, she will be impressed that you appear to be knowledgeable about diamonds.<br/><br/><br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Pick_The_Gender_Of_Your_Baby/268/3'>Pick The Gender Of Your Baby</a></div>
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		<title>Michigan Wedding Bridal Magazines</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Robert Reno asked: There are many bridal magazines in Michigan. The articles and vendors provided in these resources can prove to be invaluable to brides when searching for Michigan wedding vendors. Besides being a great source of references for Michigan wedding professionals, Michigan wedding magazines give brides insight into wedding highlights. These articles also give [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>Robert Reno</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>There are many bridal magazines in Michigan. The articles and vendors provided in these resources can prove to be invaluable to brides when searching for Michigan wedding vendors. Besides being a great source of references for Michigan wedding professionals, Michigan wedding magazines give brides insight into wedding highlights. These articles also give great ideas for wedding planning and event organization.<br/><br/><strong>Michigan Bridal Magazines</strong><br/><br/>One popular resource for the best in wedding reception and ceremony tips is the Perfect Wedding Guide of Detroit Michigan. The Perfect Wedding Guide gives brides great wedding tips for current trends with wedding fashion and planning advice. They standout when you mention Michigan bridal magazines. The reason for this is that whether your question is about a sample wedding budget or your honeymoon plans, all your answer may lie in the Perfect Wedding Guide.<br/><br/><strong>Michigan Wedding Magazines</strong><br/><br/>Another great place that a bride will go to for some local scoop on Michigan wedding vendors is the Premier Bride of Detroit Michigan. They say that your dream wedding starts here. Just as the Perfect Wedding Guide, the Premier Bride offers contest where those that register can win prizes. For those that do not know, when you register for a contest you may be added to a list. These lead lists are provided to those that advertise with the Michigan Wedding Magazines (Michigan DJ, Florists, Officiants, Videographers, Planners, Caterers&#8230; etc.) If you do not want to be added to any list and receive TONS of e-mails, then simply do not register. Once again, the Premier Bride is a great starting point for gaining some common ground and both what you and your fiance want.<br/><br/><strong>Magazines in Michigan for Brides</strong><br/><br/>I just list two of the most common magazines in Michigan for brides above. Both the Premier Bride and Perfect Wedding Guide will help relieve some of the common stresses that coincide with wedding reception and ceremony planning. My best recommendation is to use more than one resource when sorting through the information to help determine your decision. Sometimes articles and references can be biased, so take any words of wisdom with a grain of salt.<br/><br/>Remember, this is your one wedding and the most important thing to remember, its the brides way or the highway!<br/><br/><br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Sign_Language_For_Babies_And_Beyond/200/3'>Sign Language For Babies And Beyond</a></div>
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<div><em><strong>Gen Wright</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>irst Sight<P /><P />When you love somebody, you feel that special energy everywhere and you see the light in all the things around you. Then comes the moment when you feel that you love somebody so intensely that you want to live with that special person happily ever after. It is the moment of the approaching engagement and great plans and expectations. When you decide to plan your engagement, do that with a lot of fun and joy and keep unforgettable and beautiful memories forever. Plan your engagement with Hearts on Fire and experience the true beauty of giving and receiving love and happiness. Hearts on Fire provides you with the most beautiful engagement rings, all of which convey the meaning of unique and eternal relationship.<P /><P />If You Want to Say More<P /><P />When you plan your engagement, keep in mind that you should give and promise more than an engagement ring. Hearts on Fire reminds you that there is perfection that makes the heart beat faster and beckons you from across the room. You should seek that perfection and shoot for its intensity in order to establish long-lasting relationship and protect it with the power of love and devotion. Hearts on Fire helps you to give and say more, to love and promise, to feel and enjoy. When you plan your engagement, you have to make many promises and when you plan your engagement with Hearts on Fire, they always give you one promise more. That promise comes from Kimberley Process-certified single source; your conflict-free diamond is one of integrity as well as quality.<P /><P />Being a Dedication to Intensity<P /><P />Hearts on Fire, a leading and remarkable manufacturer, deals with well known retailers such as Leo Hamel Fine Jewelers, Christopher William Jewelers, Hartman Jewelers, Stucki Jewelers Inc., James and Sons, Montica Jewelry, Carter&#8217;s Diamonds, Murphy Jewelers, Roberson&#8217;s Fine Jewelry, Marshall&#8217;s Jewelers, Julia&#8217;s Fine Jewelry LLC, Lucido Fine Jewelry. Planning engagement with Hearts on Fire is a quest for intensity and perfection. A dedication to intensity is what makes Hearts on Fire special and remarkable. Hearts on Fire engagement diamond rings are like the unique relationships they have come to symbolize over the years. Start your engagement planning with a unique engagement ring, which will truly reflect your love and personality. Hearts on Fire offers you numerous gorgeous engagement rings. Timeless Solitaire, with fluid lines lovingly embrace a Hearts on Fire Solitaire, may be your choice. For your dream engagement, you may choose Wondrous Dream Solitaire with brilliant diamonds, which ascend the stem of a glorious Dream solitaire.<P /><P />Enduring Declaration of Your Commitment<P /><P />Hearts on Fire helps you to plan a perfect engagement and to choose a timeless engagement ring of exceptional quality and extraordinary design and style. Plan your engagement with Hearts on Fire with people you love at WhereToGetEnaged, an engagement and wedding social network, which enables you to share your beautiful and unforgettable engagement experience. Establish a deep, rich and meaningful relationship, which goes beyond conventional definitions. WhereToGetEnaged, an engagement and wedding social network, is a leading social network, which brings happiness and success to your life. Hearts on Fire and many other prominent manufacturers and vendors keep their places and high positions at this prestigious social network and promote their engagement related business in every respect. Being part of such a successful and popular team of vendors and manufacturers is a chance that you must seize. Numerous benefits and opportunities will help you to promote your business and maintain high and successful standards.<P /><P />If You Seek More Meaning and Passion<P /><P />WhereToGetEnaged, an engagement and wedding social network, is a perfect place for those ones who want to keep up with the latest fashion and trends, who are always at the right place at the right time and who can recognize true qualities and extraordinary standards. Join us as a user, vendor or manufacturer and make the most of your free profile, uploaded with your photos and videos. Enjoy your engagement planning and plan your engagement with people you love as well as with the experts, who can help you to find more meaning and passion in your every day life. Manage blogs, newsletters, events, share ideas and experience on engagement planning, reach the best vendors and manufacturers, promote your perfect engagement and wedding products and service, and just like Hearts on Fire, live and love intensely.<br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Ultimate_Guide_To_Baby_Gender_Selection/254/3'>Ultimate Guide To Baby Gender Selection</a></div>
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<div><em><strong>marciano guerrero</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>How Mr. Collins proposed to Elizabeth Bennet:<br/><br/>Not long ago, Mary Patricia and I saw a movie based on the Jane Austen&#8217;s novel Pride and Prejudice. The scenes in which Mr. Collins and Mr. Darcy proposed to Elizabeth Bennet made us cringe with disgust.<br/><br/>This is what Mr. Collins says in a boorish preamble:<br/><br/>&#8220;Almost as soon as I entered the house I singled you out as the companion of my future life. But before I am run away with by my feelings on this subject, perhaps it will advisable for me to state my reasons for marrying-and moreover for coming into Hertfordshire with the design of selecting a wife, as I certainly did.&#8221;<br/><br/>Next he offers his reasons:<br/><br/>&#8220;My reasons for marrying are, first, that I think it a right thing for every clergyman in easy circumstances (like myself) to set the example of matrimony in his parish. Secondly, that I am convinced it will add very greatly to my happiness; and thirdly-which perhaps I ought to have mentioned earlier, that it is the particular advice and recommendation of the very noble lady whom I have the honour or calling patroness.&#8221;<br/><br/>One can understand that Mr. Collins is a ridiculous character whose actions and speech are deliberately inserted in the novel to bring about the much needed comic relief. But Mr. Collins isn&#8217;t joking-he is quite serious!<br/><br/>And speaking of seriousness, we find that the most serious character of the entire cast, Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy, uses the same boorish and unromantic marriage proposal; a proposal even more despicable than that of the loathsome Mr. Collins.<br/><br/>How Mr. Darcy proposed to Elizabeth Bennet<br/><br/>Again, a boorish preamble:<br/><br/>&#8220;In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire you.&#8221;<br/><br/>Next he offers his reasons. The exact words may have been too painful for the readership of the times; and in good sense the author has the narrator to intimate them only. Instead the narrator tells us about Darcy&#8217;s expectations:<br/><br/>&#8220;He [Mr. Darcy] concluded with representing to her the strength of that attachment which, in spite of all his endeavors, he had found impossible to conquer; and with expressing his hope that it would now be rewarded by her acceptance of his hand. As he said this, she could easily see that he had no doubt of a favourable answer. He spoke of apprehension and anxiety, but his countenance expressed real security.&#8221;<br/><br/>When Elizabeth rebuffs him with a scathing speech of which the most memorable line is &#8220;&#8230;and I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed to married,&#8221; Mr. Darcy instead of making a graceful exit, insists by remarking on his superiority of status, his superiority of connections, and by the vulgarity of Elizabeth&#8217;s family members.<br/><br/>Mr. Collins and Mr. Darcy&#8217;s proposal were insults and affronts rather than honor and homage to the beloved.<br/><br/>Nothing in their speech projects love but coldness and arrogance.<br/><br/>Although I was not quite eighteen years of age when I proposed, I instinctively knew that it is the man&#8217;s role to woo the beloved and win her hand in a way that is warm and loving. The man&#8217;s speech (proposal) I was sure would have to be clear and filled with &#8216;you&#8217; and not with &#8216;me&#8217; or &#8216;I.&#8217;<br/><br/>How I proposed to Mary Patricia:<br/><br/>When we were in between classes Mary Patricia and I would meet either at the sun dial or by the sycamore tree in front of Lewisohn Hall. Without any experience in amorous proposals, and fearful that my nervousness would botch up what could be the most momentous occasion of my life, one afternoon sitting under the old tree I scribbled a few notes on an index card.<br/><br/>Then as if under the spell of a guiding force, as we stood under the sycamore tree, this is what I read to her:<br/><br/>&#8220;Since we met, you&#8217;ve made me a better student, a better person: kinder and nobler. And I now have a burning desire to succeed in life; not because of me, not because of my family, but because I want you to think of me as a worthy person.<br/><br/>&#8220;If I always feel compelled to hold your hand and to put my arms around you, it is because I want to make sure you are human, that you aren&#8217;t an angel or a goddess. I cannot imagine the rest of my life without you by my side, for you and your music are everything to me now: when I&#8217;m awake I think of you, when I sleep I dream of you, and in my dreams you are my hypnosis, my delirium, and my peace.<br/><br/>Having read my scribbling, and as I got down on one knee, I asked Mary Patricia:<br/><br/>&#8220;Will you marry me-will you marry this poor boy from the Andes who was born to love you forever?&#8221;<br/><br/><br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Sign_Language_For_Babies_And_Beyond/270/3'>Sign Language For Babies And Beyond</a></div>
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<div><em><strong>Akasha</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>I&#8217;m from NY moved to Atl. One of my coworker (22) did everything from going on a radio show (to win a ring) to planned her own a romantic trip just so her bf can propose. Her bf every told her why would he propose when she was the one who planned the trip and something he loves her and sometime he can&#8217;t stand her. She hads tantrums when one of her friends are engaged. Went on sites where you can dress your wedding party, picks out dresses &#038; ring. Hangs pics of herself holding a friends baby while sitting next to her BF in her cube and on mysapce. She always saying all her friends are married. Her bf finnnnnally proposed this pass Sat 7/07&#038; the wedding date is (get this) oct/07. Girl has every plan out already. The older women are encouraging this.<br />
She&#8217;s just one example of this behavior I&#8217;ve encountered living down here so I just wondered if thats is how some are conditioned to be. I know every little girl dreams of their wedding but this is a little much.<br />
1st off eharrah1 I&#8217;m proud to be a as you put it &#8220;a Yankee&#8221; I&#8217;m free to live where ever I prefer this is the United States right? So keep your narrow minded attitude to yourself. 2nd this was not a question to try to change things it was a question to understand a different way of living.  Nor is this a matter of blaming anything on where one lives. I &#038; some others aren’t use to seeing this push to be married.  I understand ppl get married young all the time but to me it&#8217;s more pronounced down here. The 22 is not the issue, it’s the “I have no other goals in life but to be married attitude”.<br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Pick_Your_Babys_Gender/186/3'>Pick Your Babys Gender</a></div>
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		<description><![CDATA[chicindorkmode asked: So, my one year wedding anniversary is coming up really quick like! (April 21). We want to do something special, especially since we didn&#8217;t get to go on a honeymoon. We are both horrible at thinking of romantic things to do, and have considered staying at a B&#038;B at the beach, but we&#8217;d [...]]]></description>
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<div><em><strong>chicindorkmode</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>So, my one year wedding anniversary is coming up really quick like! (April 21).<br />
We want to do something special, especially since we didn&#8217;t get to go on a honeymoon.<br />
We are both horrible at thinking of romantic things to do, and have considered staying at a B&#038;B at the beach, but we&#8217;d have to bring our dog! <img src='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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i forgot to mention we&#8217;ve been together 6 years, we&#8217;ve done the romantic candle lit dinner at home so much. i just want to do something more special this time <img src='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> <br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/How_To_Make_A_Diaper_Cake/6/3'>How To Make A Diaper Cake</a></div>
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<div><em><strong>kisses come in fives</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>I had this really toxic relationship with my ex-fiance:<br />
we were both abusive to the other in some manner<br />
(he financially and verbally abused me, I was verbally abusive in return)<br />
he really brought out the worst in me<br />
we just weren&#8217;t right for each other<br />
and the worst part is that we wasted 6 years on each other<br />
he kept me locked up pretty tight:<br />
isolated me from my family/friends and broke into my bank account<br />
so it was hard to do but I finally I got out</p>
<p>And it didn&#8217;t take long for things to turn for both him and me:</p>
<p>Without my ex in my life I was finally able to meet my mr. right,<br />
he and I got married,<br />
he works a military job while I stay at home and take classes<br />
we have a spacious apartment, a solid car,<br />
great communication- very open and honest and respectful,<br />
a very experimental and all-around fun sex life,<br />
which resulted in us now being 7 months pregnant,<br />
(my husband calls our son our &#8220;surprise blessing&#8221;)<br />
I finally have everything I ever dreamed of<br />
its not perfect, but I&#8217;m happy,<br />
and its been so long since I&#8217;ve been happy&#8230;</p>
<p>My ex, on the other hand, was pretty happy when we were together,<br />
he freaked out when I left,<br />
even joined the military in an effort to win me back<br />
when that didn&#8217;t work, we tried to be friends<br />
the friendship was going great<br />
I talked to him and coached him into asking a girl out that he liked<br />
he sent me the greatest wedding present when I got married<br />
but as soon as he found out my husband and I were pregnant<br />
thats when things went down hill real fast:<br />
he started drinking&#8230;he now binge drinks every weekend<br />
and when he drinks he texts me to say some pretty cruel things&#8230;<br />
having been together 6 years, he really knows how to hurt me<br />
so I stopped talking to him<br />
and eventually he stopped trying to talk to me</p>
<p>I figured it was best that way&#8230;we lost our friendship a long time ago<br />
no point in trying to keep something alive when its long dead</p>
<p>But now&#8230;now I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll be able to avoid him anymore since<br />
he&#8217;s been assigned to the same base that my husband will be based on for at least the next year&#8230;<br />
even with hundreds of soliders, the base is still considered very small, and you can barely go anywhere in town without running into someone you know from base.<br />
Plus, my husband has just taken a new job&#8230;which might make him my ex&#8217;s boss for alittle while when he first comes to base&#8230;<br />
I really don&#8217;t think my ex is dumb enough to say anything to me<br />
and, even if he is dumb enough, my husband could take care of it.<br />
I know my fears are completely irrational<br />
but having been in such a toxic relationship with him&#8230;<br />
I&#8217;m afraid that his mere presence in the same time zone as my husband and I will ruin everything&#8230;<br />
like all of my happiness, all the things that are finally going right for me, all of it will crumble before me when he shows up&#8230;<br />
I know thats not going to happen but I&#8217;m still just so afraid&#8230;</p>
<p>have any of you had this happen?<br />
where you think you&#8217;ll never have to see this person again<br />
and you&#8217;re glad because the relationship was just so horrible<br />
but then you&#8217;re thrown together,<br />
living in the same town, on the same base<br />
and you&#8217;re just so scared by their presence<br />
with no real reason to be scared&#8230;.<br />
please tell me I&#8217;m not alone on this?</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t figure out why I&#8217;m so afraid&#8230;<br />
my husband says not to be so afraid, that he&#8217;ll protect me.<br />
And I really doubt that my ex will try anything&#8230;but I&#8217;m still just so frightened<br />
ps<br />
this is a repost from several hours ago, I only got responses from one gender last time, and I was hoping for both veiws<br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Baby_Sleep_Tonight/176/3'>Baby Sleep Tonight</a></div>
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<div><em><strong>weffa</strong> asked: </em><br/><br/><br/>I have been with my partner for over  ayear, we have talked about getting married in the next 5-10 years when we know our relationship can last the distance.<br />
He came home from work today and told me he&#8217;d entered us into a competition for the ultimate dream wedding &#8211; everything paid for, 50 thousand dollar wedding rings etc. The only catch is we would have to get married completely naked.<br />
I am not a materialistic person, i don&#8217;t want a big fancy wedding and he knows this &#8211; could it be possible that he is already thinking about getting married now??<br />
Im not sure what to do in this situation, i&#8217;ve told him that if we win this competition there is not way im doing it, but why would he enter in the first place?? any answers would be appreciated<br />
Haha to add to the humiliation wedding photos have to be taken &#8211; the only part we would have to be naked is at the ceremony, and we are allowed to have a weddingdress and a suit PAINTED on&#8230;. horrible<br/><br/><a href='http://howtowinyourdreamwedding.com/go/Pick_Your_Babys_Gender/166/3'>Pick Your Babys Gender</a></div>
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