Comments on: Sister may ruin my wedding?

By: Satanic Lily

Satanic Lily — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 02:22:43 +0000

I would not invite her to the wedding. She’s acting like a child.

By: Chrissy4u

Chrissy4u — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 12:44:02 +0000

Don’t invite her to your wedding. You may think that is hard. However, would you rather be on eggshells on your wedding day? If it is hard for you to do. Then have your fiance, tell her she is not welcome at your wedding. Due to her emotional abuse. If people get upset then let them. Good luck

By: writergirl

writergirl — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 05:22:35 +0000

So then tell him the dilemma and ask HIM to uninvite her. If she throws a tantrum, then just explain to her calmly that you do not want her there for that exact reason. If your mother has a problem with this, tell her you are sick of your sister bull and it is YOUR day, not hers, and you can invite and uninvite whomever you want.

By: ?

Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:53:43 +0000

if your sister is that much of pain.. don’t invite her to your wedding. Just leave her off of the guest list. I would tell her in no certain terms that she’s NOT welcome. It might cause tension, but you won’t have to put up with her on one of the most important days of your life.

By: Silky Pumpkin

Silky Pumpkin — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 01:17:46 +0000

you could un-invite her to take her down a notch, but sounds like she may just show up anyway if you do that. you could strategically piss her off a month or so before your wedding and hope she’s pissed enough not to show, then reconcile with her afterwards, that would be one way to do it. I think the best, if at all possibly solution, would be to give your mother the secret mission of distracting/managing your sister as much as possible to keep her occupied and away from you. sounds like she is the only one who would have a chance at this job and i can’t think of any other way to deal with this. On the other hand maybe your sister doesn’t realize she’s a b!tch (unlikely but possible) and maybe you want to calmly explain to her how she ruins things when she shows up. Or not so calmly blow up in her face, which might do the trick, if you tell her everything that she has done in your eyes.

good luck either way.

By: mochabiznswmn

mochabiznswmn — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 05:21:52 +0000

First of all she is a hater..i have one like that..lol I love her but choose not to deal with her..she is not in any of the affairs of my wedding but she is invited and guess what SO WHAT..people think just bc she is your sister she has a right..NEGATIVE..I think it depends on the person it is sad to say but that is just the way life goes for some people and don’t feel bad..some people live their lives by stealing other people’s joy..when you love someone you don’t hurt or belittle them so pretty much she is all for self..I wonder if we were switched at birth…lol we are sisters and they are sisters.lol it’s you day don’t wait for her anymore..you all are giving her just what she wants CONTROL ..and she wants to take all the joy off of you and she is sitting back laughing bc she is making your life a living hell..especially one of the most important days of your life,I always say you don’t have to be blood relatives to be family bc my best friend has been the best sister in the world to me..not my blood sister..it’s sad but this is just our reality and some people don’t understand it..heck I don’t see why she is that way but I won’t waste anymore time trying to guess…I am happy and stress free since I have come to that conclusion..Many blessings!

By: evil pxie

evil pxie — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 00:52:40 +0000

I’m assuming that you have spoken you both your sister and your Mom about her behavior, and are just not getting anywhere? Heres what I would do: STOP holding things up for her! As long as she knows when it starts, it’s not your job to wait on her….When she starts talking smack, just ignore, ignore, ignore…..Tell her that you really have NO desire to discuss past relationships at your wedding functions, and leave it at that! Treat her like a young child throwing a tantrum…the quickest way to get them to stop is to ignore them. In so far as the dress goes, let her know that as much as you love her, it’s your day, and if she doesn’t want to wear the dress you picked out, she wont be in the wedding party. And if she follows you, let her. I realize that “letting it go” is easier said than done. Use every support system you have in place (friends, fiancee, et all). The important thing to realize is that she can NOT mess anything up for you. Once you have the vision of her in your head as a crabby 3 year old, chances are you really WILL be able to laugh it off, and at that point, my guess is it will stop! Good, good luck to you, and I hope your Wedding Day is all you hope for!

By: Baloneyus_Monk

Baloneyus_Monk — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:26:52 +0000

Uninvite her.

Post “security” at the doors. (Extra ushers)

And get yourself to the spa for a serious massage to relax!

You’re right: it is YOUR wedding!

Oh, and while you’re at it….you might consider “un-inviting” her from the rest of your life.

Best wishes to you!

By: Fred R

Fred R — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 02:46:16 +0000

Have someone keep an eye out so your sister don.t start something and keep out of it it’s your day good luck

By: Meme

Meme — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 08:06:18 +0000

I pray that God will help your sister to see her problem with jealousy and that your wedding will be exactly what you’ve hoped for. I’ll be praying for you. You deserve so much better.