As the older sister, shouldn’t I have a say?.Wedding?
September 29th, 2009
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Me and my baby sister are having difficulties when it comes to the song for her first dance.
Me and my baby sister are having difficulties when it comes to the song for her first dance.
Now, I asked her to please dance to the song that I always dreamed of dancing to if I ever get remarried (very nice of me). I just want to watch, and cry. Its just a beautiful song.
But she says IDK? WTH??? She’s thinking she wants to this song..
Pretty lame-o for a wedding dance, if you ask me!
So, who wins?
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October 1st, 2009 at 2:25 pm
Let her do whatever she wants…..it’s her special day, not yours.
October 3rd, 2009 at 12:26 am
I didn’t even listen to the songs. She wins. It’s her wedding, not yours.
October 5th, 2009 at 6:53 am
It’s her wedding and her choice. You’re welcome to have an opinion but that’s all you get is an opinion. You don’t actually get a say in what she decides. Why not save that song for your own wedding?
October 7th, 2009 at 1:30 pm
If she is getting married, it should be her choice. You can pick yours when you get married.
October 10th, 2009 at 9:07 pm
Its her wedding it is her choice on what she and her fiance choose as their first dance. Maybe she can use your song for something else, but their first song as a couple should be THEIR choice.
October 12th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
She wins because it is her wedding. This is her one chance to do what she dreams of…hopefully as her older sister, you will understand how important that is to her.
October 13th, 2009 at 11:31 am
Holy okay Honey have you not realized that this is not your wedding? This is your sisters wedding. So sad that you didn’t get your dream song at your first wedding but let your sister choose and her fiance choose. It’s not your choice. So grow up.
By the way her song sounds a lot better.
October 14th, 2009 at 9:41 pm
i personally think her song choice is much better……but even if her song was terrible, no you have no say whatsoever. I you get married, you can choose the song for your wedding, but as far as her wedding, she can take suggestions if she wants to, but it is 100% up to her. Its her day not yours, doesnt matter who you are
October 16th, 2009 at 10:41 pm
Who do you think you are? And what makes you think that you have ANY say in what her first dance song is? Let HER and HER HUSBAND choose, seeing as how it is THEIR wedding.
October 17th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Compromise with a Wu-Tang song.
October 20th, 2009 at 8:19 am
well, its her wedding, and if she plans for this to be her only/ last wedding then you should let her pick the song…….it will only happen once
October 23rd, 2009 at 8:04 am
I didn’t listen to either song because it doesn’t matter.
In answer to your question, no you don’t get a say. Not one bit. It isn’t your place and I certainly hope that this question is fake. If it isn’t, then I pity your sister.
October 25th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Neither are any good. I think something like 2 Live Crew’s “Me So Horny” would be much better.
October 28th, 2009 at 7:19 am
this isn’t a competition, nor is it your wedding…
rather than trying to control your sister, support her in all of her decisions and realize the honor in that she even asked you for advice…
October 29th, 2009 at 2:37 am
Uh, duh, your sister. She’s the bride.
October 29th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
her wedding . her choice. you are being controlling and very rude
October 30th, 2009 at 6:06 am
it is her wedding, not yours. save it for your next wedding. i dont think that you pressuring her to use your song is “very nice of you”. you should be greatful she is including you in her wedding plans at all, especially if youre going to throw a tantrum about not getting your way at HER wedding.
October 30th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
She’s the one getting married, not you. It’s her choice. When you get married, you and your fiance pick the song and she doesn’t get any say. Leave her alone.
October 30th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
I didn’t even listen to the songs either.
No, you have NO say whatsoever. Zero. This is HER wedding not yours. IF you ever got remarried, YOU can dance to that song… and you aren’t doing her any favors by asking her to dance to it. She should dance to the song she picks.
Stop being a b*tch!
October 31st, 2009 at 2:36 am
She does. Her wedding.
You need to check your sense of entitlement at the door, sweetie. Whatever you may want, it is not your wedding.
If you ever get remarried, have your song.
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Edit: if having that song means that much to you, offer little sister money for the right to choose it. Ask her how much she’d want, and if you don’t want it bad enough to pay her that much, lay off and leave her alone.
October 31st, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Her Wedding, her choice. Simple as that.
November 1st, 2009 at 10:36 pm
Hmm, jealous much?
November 2nd, 2009 at 12:02 am
Her wedding…her choice!
Keep your special song for your own wedding.
November 2nd, 2009 at 11:18 pm
Very nice of you? LOL
Stay out of it. It’s HER wedding.
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:45 am
“Now, I asked her to please dance to the song that I always dreamed of dancing to if I ever get remarried (very nice of me).”
You are weird. Why the hell would your sister pick a song to share with her HUSBAND that reminds her of you? Who cares if you want to watch and cry. This isnt about you. Gosh , you are really weird!
And the song sucks. It sounds like a low grade KC and JoJo song. Ha!
November 6th, 2009 at 3:35 am
Listen, Sweetie….and answer this.
‘Whose wedding is it anyway?” ‘Whose special dance with her husband?”…
Is it YOU dancing with your new husband for the first time…or your sister dancing with hers.
or do you have a secret crush on her fiance and want him for yourself…and this is how you can pretend it’s you married to & dancing
with him……
Her wedding….her husband…her first dance…her song. STOP BEING CONTROLLING AND TRYING TO LIVE YOUR DREAM WEDDING THRU HER…it’s NOT fair to her or yourself.
It’s not a contest… it’s not a matter of ‘winning’…the Bride & Groom choose their special song…YOU DON’T.
So keep your yapper zipped and save that song for your own wedding.