This is so embarrassing can someone offer advice?
September 25th, 2009
weffa asked:
I have been with my partner for over ayear, we have talked about getting married in the next 5-10 years when we know our relationship can last the distance.
He came home from work today and told me he’d entered us into a competition for the ultimate dream wedding – everything paid for, 50 thousand dollar wedding rings etc. The only catch is we would have to get married completely naked.
I am not a materialistic person, i don’t want a big fancy wedding and he knows this – could it be possible that he is already thinking about getting married now??
Im not sure what to do in this situation, i’ve told him that if we win this competition there is not way im doing it, but why would he enter in the first place?? any answers would be appreciated
Haha to add to the humiliation wedding photos have to be taken – the only part we would have to be naked is at the ceremony, and we are allowed to have a weddingdress and a suit PAINTED on…. horrible
Pick Your Babys Gender
I have been with my partner for over ayear, we have talked about getting married in the next 5-10 years when we know our relationship can last the distance.
He came home from work today and told me he’d entered us into a competition for the ultimate dream wedding – everything paid for, 50 thousand dollar wedding rings etc. The only catch is we would have to get married completely naked.
I am not a materialistic person, i don’t want a big fancy wedding and he knows this – could it be possible that he is already thinking about getting married now??
Im not sure what to do in this situation, i’ve told him that if we win this competition there is not way im doing it, but why would he enter in the first place?? any answers would be appreciated
Haha to add to the humiliation wedding photos have to be taken – the only part we would have to be naked is at the ceremony, and we are allowed to have a weddingdress and a suit PAINTED on…. horrible
Pick Your Babys Gender
September 27th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
You will be married to a freak….or a future porn star:)
September 28th, 2009 at 5:40 am
If it is a dream wedding, then why on Earth would you have to be naked? Sounds like a nightmare I have where I am standing in front of a bunch of people giving a presentation naked.
I wouldn’t do it. WTF are you going to do when people ask to see your wedding pictures?
September 28th, 2009 at 11:53 am
Obviously, you are not a guy
Look at it this way
“free wedding
“all you need to do is get married nude”
As soon as he saw that, something clicked in his mind, obviously he wants to see you naked, and wants to get married.
September 29th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
ASK HIM!!!! The competition is stupid. Whose ‘dream wedding’ is doing it naked? That is very ridiculous.
September 29th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
he sounds impulsive…if there is no way you’d do it tell him that now…tell him what your values are and that way if you two share different ones you may want to reconsider being together
September 29th, 2009 at 7:46 pm
That does sound very strange that he would enter the two of you, knowing that you don’t want a lavish wedding… and I assume he knows that you wouldn’t want to get married naked.
Maybe he entered in hopes that you’d get mad? Possibly break off the relationship?? – I honestly don’t think that’s the case but I thought I’d throw it out there…
Have y’all talked enough for you to determine if that’s something he would REALLY like to do?? Maybe it’s his dream wedding? LOL
Good luck and I hope you two get it figured out!
October 1st, 2009 at 10:47 pm
Maybe he doesn’t want o have to pay for a wedding and this oportunity came up where everything is paid for but the catch is getting married naked. That is so tacky. I would not do it either does he think your gonna let your family your dad and his dad watch you nakes!! wow he is crasy. either that or he probably knows that there is slim chance that your guy might win.
Ask him if he is serious about marrying you if he says yes of course then tell him you will only do that is s classy way with a wedding dress on. Good luck I mean for your sake I hope you don’t win. That is is you really don’t want to go naked.
October 2nd, 2009 at 4:35 pm
Yeah well, if you win the contest, just don’t slip while cutting the wedding cake.
October 5th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Well maybe your partner feels ready to be married to you and wants to use this as an opportunity. But getting married naked is a little extreme especially if you want friends, family, and people who are important to you to be there as well. I think you should think about how ready you are for that big of a commitment.
Have a great day!
October 8th, 2009 at 5:03 am
I would say he just saw the dollar signs & that’s why he signed up for it. What a CRAZY way to get married! And, oh how nice of them to “allow” you to have a wedding dress & suit painted on the pics…lol Sorry but I just don’t present myself that well in my “birthday suit” that I’d ever agree to that one. Ask him what ever possessed him to enter that stupid contest to begin with. You’ll get the correct ans. rite there…lots of luck on this one…:)