my gf’s dream. help interpret please? (its long)?
September 24th, 2009
Alex: Protector of Mankind asked:
My gf was telling me about this dream she keeps having and we can’t figure it out except it involve me her and her ex. Well her dream starts off with her in a castle talking to the king. The king tells her that she was chosen to wed either his son, me, or his daughter, her ex, so that he may have an heir (which doesn’t make sense). He then gives her the choice to have an ear ring(only one tho) or a necklace. The ear ring is the choice to marry the prince and the necklace is the chose to marry the princess. She’s not aware of this however and choses the necklace and is told that she chose the princess to marry. My gf wanders the castle looking for the prince but gets lost and instead finds the changing room and the maids start to prepare her for the wedding. The king then comes in and offers her the same one ear ring or a beautiful dress. This time she picks the ear ring chosing the prince. She then starts to run thruogh the castle looking for the prince again and finds him in the lake garden and tells him that she’s in love with him and that she chose to marry him this time, but the prince just gets up and leaves the garden without a word. So she looks for him again and finds him in the throne room but he still won’t speak to her. Because of this she gets annoyed and starts to yell at him, but realizes that 1 he’s always wearing sunglasses. That cover his eyes and most of his face and 2 he’s crying behind them. The prince then gives her the second ear ring that matches the first and he hugs her. This is where my gf wakes up everytime and this is before her dream is actually over.
My gf was telling me about this dream she keeps having and we can’t figure it out except it involve me her and her ex. Well her dream starts off with her in a castle talking to the king. The king tells her that she was chosen to wed either his son, me, or his daughter, her ex, so that he may have an heir (which doesn’t make sense). He then gives her the choice to have an ear ring(only one tho) or a necklace. The ear ring is the choice to marry the prince and the necklace is the chose to marry the princess. She’s not aware of this however and choses the necklace and is told that she chose the princess to marry. My gf wanders the castle looking for the prince but gets lost and instead finds the changing room and the maids start to prepare her for the wedding. The king then comes in and offers her the same one ear ring or a beautiful dress. This time she picks the ear ring chosing the prince. She then starts to run thruogh the castle looking for the prince again and finds him in the lake garden and tells him that she’s in love with him and that she chose to marry him this time, but the prince just gets up and leaves the garden without a word. So she looks for him again and finds him in the throne room but he still won’t speak to her. Because of this she gets annoyed and starts to yell at him, but realizes that 1 he’s always wearing sunglasses. That cover his eyes and most of his face and 2 he’s crying behind them. The prince then gives her the second ear ring that matches the first and he hugs her. This is where my gf wakes up everytime and this is before her dream is actually over.
I know its long but please we both have been trying to interpret her dream but only got so far as who everyone is. The king is our deceased friend who also was in love with my gf thus the heir. The princess is my gf’s ex who she broke up with in order to go out with me. And the prince is me and like the prince in her dream I’ve been in love with her since I first met her.
Thanks to all who answer or care enough to read the whole dream.
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September 28th, 2009 at 12:16 am
I read the whole dream. It’s interesting to me that you’re reporting it secondhand (it’s your girlfriend’s dream). Maybe instead of thinking about what the dream means, you should think about why she’s telling it to you–here’s my take on that. Perhaps this is her way of telling you that she’s over her ex, and would like to be with you now. But why would you wear your sunglasses instead of just showing her how you feel? Maybe she’s trying to tell you (or her dream is trying to tell her) that she’d like you to be more open about your feelings.
You say that all of the characters in the dream represent people who love (or loved) your girlfriend. I’m sorry to hear that one of your friends is deceased. Maybe your girlfriend is having trouble coping with her feelings towards all three of you, and this dream is her mind’s way of working all this out.
I am no expert dream interpreter, but I believe that dreams are our minds’ way of working through things for us. It sounds like this would be a difficult situation for your girlfriend to go through. She had one person in love with her who’s now deceased, she broke up with someone in order to go out with you, and now she has to figure out her feelings for you, as well.
Based on what happens in the dream, though, it seems like she wants to be with you. But what do I know, I’m just a stranger on the internet.
October 1st, 2009 at 12:03 am
It doesn’t necessarily mean anything, just a dream. There are all sorts of claims and conjectures about what dreams mean, mostly based on wish-fulfillment or fears. It’s intriguing to think about because the events of our recent lives seem to play out in our dreams in odd ways, but the “theories” of interpretation are merely someone’s opinion and not based on anything substantial or objective or scientific.