Archive for September 27th, 2009

Hijab wedding?

Sunday, September 27th, 2009
muta asked:


I live in France and am planning on going back to the states for my sister’s wedding. She does not want me to attend the wedding in my hijab.
At first she said I could not even come with it on. Then she said it was my choice but she preferred I took it off.
My plan was to compromise. I won’t wear all black, abaya and huge veil. I will wear something in color, and try to find some dress that is very very modest, stylish, with a veil to match.
Then my mom on the phone said again, ‘she’s really hoping you come in normal clothes.’
I’m getting very upset about this. Even having bad dreams about my family and how closed minded they are. I will not take it off. Should I just not go to the wedding and risk breaking familial ties (that’s haram!) or just go with my veil and endure the abuse my family is going to dole out?
For the first answer, I will tell you now that I am not implying other women who don’t veil as ‘sluts’ per se. Don’t be simplistic. I may think they do not have a clear conception of human nature, but I am not so ignorant as to think they are promiscuous..
don’t be simplistic in your thinking…
If you don’t erase that huge anti-islam rant from this thread, i will report you.

Ultimate Guide To Baby Gender Selection
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I cant plan a decent wedding?

Sunday, September 27th, 2009
taradelynn777 asked:


Okay so my wedding is set for december 19th of this year,, although it might have to be moved up to the 30th due to family stuff. anyway, my date isnt changing from this december, so what i really need is some advice on how to go about this in a cost effeiciant way! i wanted a nice wedding, but my parents aren’t with me. his parents on the other hand, want some kind of ceremony and won’t let it go. i would like a nice simple thing, but im worried some of my ideas are cheap. like since its a afternoon i was just gonna have some vegtable trays and fruit, some desserts and a cake and then punch. we are a young couple so there wont be any drinking. we are thinking with a simple wedding we can still invite everyone we want to without it affecting the price. is it wrong to say my wedding party just get their own dress? it can be whatever they choose together its only my sister and best friend. and what kind of decorations are pretty that are still simple and unexpensive?? BTW our wedding is not christmas themed, its lavendar and off white. any ideas would be sooo great i am in tears! i’ve been planning this since march and im no closer to any answers and the big day is a couple months away! HELP!

Sign Language For Babies And Beyond
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Party Favour ideas for 13 year old boys?

Sunday, September 27th, 2009
catrina h asked:


I am giving all the children party bags at my wedding, mostly to keep them occupied. But I have two 13 year old boys. (the girls are simple to figure out)
But the Boys are hard to think of what i can get them.

Need to be practical and cheap (really cheap, like 99p ish.)

Any ideas?
I don’t want them to go without!

How To Make A Diaper Cake

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